Disclaimer: This might not apply where you live, but it does apply to where I am from. Tucuman, a modern Shire. That pretty much sums it up.
One of the things I’ve found confusingly easy in my life was to move on. You would expect it to be hard, and in a way it looks like it is, but over time you get better at it –and perhaps that is what happened to me.
Starting with the base that you suck at moving on, you would think that your partner for a reasonable amount of time leaving you is the end of it. That your life is pointless, and that you can’t do nothing but wait until it “goes away”. And in a way, that is true. In another way though, you are entitled to claim your life’s driver-seat and just make the turn you want, at any time, to go wherever you want...